DD (nearly 5) is so ridiculously whiney it's untrue.
DD - Can I watch TV
Me - No, it's 6.30am and you have walked straight in my room and asked, we have literally just woken up
DD - Can I watch TV
Me - No, it's 5 minutes after you last asked (and continue until 7am)
Yesterday the conversations were the same but she was asking for "treats" "tv" "toys" and I kept telling her that we are out in the sunshine we can watch TV later/when it's raining, she has lots of toys at home so doesn't need any more. I don't know where the word "treat" has come from as it's not one I use but we had brunch out yesterday then later spent 3.5 hours in a playground which had bouncy castles etc and she had picnic then.
She is gorgeous, kind, lovely, breaks my heart that she is such a sweet lovely clever little girl but the constant asking for stuff/whinging/whiney is making me crazy and I end up shouting at her. I don't think she is spoilt, I do think she is lucky and definitely has more than I had when I was little but I feel like getting rid of the TV. I let them have 30 mins of it usually late afternoon, or the odd time a film if it's raining. DH and I don't really watch it nowadays as too knackered so I even thought about getting rid of it but didn't know if that would backfire when I want to watch something at Christmas.
(2 year old isn't like this so do I have it to look forward to again? ) :(
Open to ideas on how to handle it better too as I appreciate I may be doing it all wrong.
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CheshireDing · 31/07/2016 10:41
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