DH is Chinese, I'm white British and we have one DS(9) who is visually an equal mixture of us.
BIL, my husbands brother is also Chinese and his wife is African American, they have a DS(10)
Today was the first day of a football play/training scheme for the boys.
Both were very excited and had an okay time but they didn't like one of the coaches, I wasn't there, so I can only judge from what they've said.
All the kids were split into groups and were assigned a coach and then they rotated throughout the day, DS and DNephew were not in the same group but both complained about the same coach.
He was making comments to all the kids and some of what he said, made the boys really uncomfortable, it was to me, racist.
To DNephew: "Your people can kick harder then that"
When he was putting on sun cream "hurry up, you don't need all that"
To DS: "Are you sure you wouldn't be better in goal, easier to see if you're not running" DS has monolid eyes.
That's all they can remember but they say he said more.
I don't want DS going back tomorrow, DS wants to go and DH thinks I'm overreacting and that we should let him.
WIBU to complain about this coach & ask for DS not to be assigned to him?
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Am I being too sensitive?
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LunaMoony · 30/07/2016 23:41
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