My mum died 4 months ago and it was sudden so I am finding it very difficult to come to terms with. I also have no siblings and 4 young children plus a husband who was supportive at first but is being horrible at times now. Also my father died a few years ago so I feel I have no one to talk to at all about this as I have no other family apart from my children and husband.
I had mislaid a piece of paperwork for the council tax this morning as I had sorted the paperwork out earlier in the week. My husband needed this to make a phone call and asked me where it is so I said it should be in our file box. He emptied everything out and couldn't find it( he is very untidy when looking for things so everything I had sorted had been mixed up) I also have a file box with my moms affairs in and he went to look in there.
I told him not to go in there as it was my mums things and I had organised it. He ignored me and started to pull everything out in temper as I was trying to stop him so he emptied it upside down so everything fell out.
I'm so upset, it contained her will, death certificate, financial affairs a few hospital letters and sentimental stuff I had put in there. All of this was just all over the floor. I have to say I tried to pull him off it and he slapped me on the arm.
I can't stop crying as I have never felt so alone in my life as I do now.
Also can some one advise me as I do not want to put his name on the house Feds but where do I stand legally? If we split would he be entitled to half the house?
Sorry for rambling my head is all over the place at the moment. Thanks for reading.
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Flowersandtrees · 29/07/2016 11:12
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