But of background, I'm quite a hoarder and recently have been trying to declutter.
I do this by bagging things up, waiting a couple of weeks and either adding to them or going through and taking items back out that I thought I didn't want but did. So, there are usually 2-3 bin bags of stuff in my room.
Every month dh takes some to the charity shop. It's a system that's working for me.
My usual cleaner is on holiday so had a different one. She mentioned bags and I said it's fine to move them to hoover it's just stuff for the charity shop and bits I'm de cluttering. She asked if there was kids stuff in there and I said yes and if she wanted it is sort through and give to her next week. All fine. Half an hour later she was saying the bags are really in her way can she move them I said yes.
Then she said she needed to take them downstairs. I said it's fine dh will probably take them at the weekend so fine to move them if she didn't mind the weight of them.
She then put them by the front door and I said I'd move them to the sofa near kitchen and she said "no I'll bring my car round and take them today". I explained I actually still needed to sort through them again. She seemed really put out
She came home and asked why they were on the sofa and he said i should have let her take them? Was I rude not to have? I just need to de clutter my house my way and dos t want to be 'forced' into everything going at once ?
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Was I being rude? I didn't think so ?
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Embarrassment2016 · 28/07/2016 12:51
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