Posting in AIBU as I really need advice on how to deal with this. I'm not a nosy neighbour by any means, I am also not a perfect parent but my god I'm shaken & I'm not sure what to do. DH & I are sat outside in the garden, BBQ'ing, chatting & enjoying the evening. Next door's DC (they have two, a boy aged 2 & a girl around 7/8) have been crying. This isn't unusual - I regularly hear the mum screaming at the children (mainly the little boy, in the day-time when the girl is at school) and by scream, I really do mean scream. It's very hard to hear but I have brushed it off as simply none of my business. Anyway, next thing you know, the dad & the kids (can't decide if there is just the one outside or both of them) are in the garden, the dad is screaming shut up, shut up & making a growling snarling noise (kid screaming & crying, getting hysterical). We then hear smacking. Hear, not see. We sit for a while & listen. DH gets up, goes to the fence (they are very high & view is obscured) & doesn't see, but hears skin on flesh i.e. repeated smacking of the girl. The girl's pitch (cries) then increased. DH shouts out 'you better not be doing what I think you're doing else I'm going to come round and see you'. Promptly followed by me rushing over & begging DH not to get involved, & to sit back down. I reiterated to DH that yes, its absolutely wrong but it's nothing to do with us & begging him not to become involved. As I sit here now, we can still here crying/screaming children inside the house. I really don't know what to do. I have told DH I am going to mention this at the Children's Centre where I regularly take DD to groups. I have seen the mum there a few times so I'm not sure whether they are aware of any problems. Is that enough? Should I not even do that? I am sitting here close to tears at the thought of that little girl next door. The 'dad' is definitely the boy's father but I'm not sure he is the girl's father.
WWYD, and AIBU to report it to the Children's Centre? I'm not even sure they would do anything, as neither would the police (DH wanted to call them but I reminded him smacking a child isn't illegal & we didn't actually see anything).
Or tell me to mind my own business.
I've taken 20-minutes to write this & I can still hear crying.
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onethingoranother · 23/07/2016 21:50
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