I'm 5'4 in height which means the slightest extra pound is noticeable. Since my 3rd baby a few years back I've developed a very round, pregnant looking tummy. It's where all my weight goes whilst I still somehow manage to retain slim arms and legs - frustrating.
Every so often, about once a month, strangers will ask me "when is it due?" (Happened 2 weeks ago in M&S jewellery section and has regularly happened since 2007, leaving me in tears sometimes.) I am always unprepared as its a stranger so not expecting to be spoken to but it always catches me off guard. I feel awkward, embarrassed and sometimes humiliated because there is no baby, just a heap of fat which they are drawing attention to in front of everyone. Yesterday collecting DD from a group a young boy if around 6 or 7 asked "do you have a baby in your tummy?" I replied no and smiled but other parents heard it and I was mortified. I do have a weight issue since having DD3 and have been ill so it's just this year I'm beginning to tackle it. I've actually lost 12lbs since beginning of June which makes these comments even more stinging!
It's obvious when people see my weight first because I watch their eyes drop from my face to my tummy - it's a horrible feeling because you feel judged by a total stranger.
AIBU in thinking people shouldn't ask complete strangers personal questions like this? Or do I have to suck it up that it's ok for others to ask these things?
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SparkleSoiree · 22/07/2016 08:53
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