He really doesn't hear me when he gets distracted, and he gets distracted frequently. It's as if his brain just doesn't process that I have spoken.
It doesn't only happen when he's tired or hungry or stressed or there is some sound interference (background noise) I can be inches away, speaking clearly and it's like I somehow don't exist.
It's often the trivial stuff that gets me.
For example we were having lunch. Our daughter who is on the other side of the world had sent us both a message to our daughter. I had replied to her. Then I'd gone across the room to make us both some tea. The phone pinged. He reached for it. I said 'If it's Daughter, please don't read me the reply out loud - I want to read it for myself.
I carried on making our tea and he looked at the phone, then began reading out her reply.
I said ' I just said I wanted to read it for myself.'
'Oh did you? I didn't hear.'
Like that....
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HostOfDaffodils · 21/07/2016 14:12
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