For the last seven months I have been in what can only be described as the most perfect relationship ever.
Before I met DP I never believed in true love, soul mates or love at first sight.
We met through online dating, as soon as he messaged me I knew he was something special, we clicked immediately, met a week later and have been together ever since.
We have everything in common, we agree on everything, we are always thinking the same thing, we are always feeling exactly the same way, but it's not annoying or boring, it's just easy and lovely. We both think the other is utterly amazing as are completely besotted.
I think I fell in love with him the first time I met him but I just didn't realise at the time, but now I know, I feel like I have always loved him.
He is absolutely the most perfect person I've ever met, not in a too good to be true kind of way, he's not perfect perfect, but he is perfect for me.
Since we started dating he has been ill a lot, before our relationship he was healthy, only having the occasional cold, but since we met he's had one virus, illness or bug after another. It got to the point where his GP is sent him for tests because she thought he may have some kind of autoimmune disease.
Since start of our relationship I have been injured on an almost weekly basis, the first week we started dating I fell and broke my wrist, that was the first time I ever broke a bone, since then I have broken two more. I am always covered in bumps, scrapes and bruises from accidents and injuries, it's so bad that someone from HR requested a meeting to discuss my bruises because several colleagues had expressed concerns that I was always hurt, they asked me if anything was wrong and if anybody was doing it to me, basically they thought DP was abusing me as its all been since the start of our relationship.
Today I had another accident and have cut my leg quite nastily, DP is off work again today as he has another virus.
As I laid on the sofa sobbing in pain after I fell it suddenly dawned on me that we could be cursed.
It sounds ridiculous but this has all been since we started our relationship, I managed to make it into my 30s without any serious injuries are broken bones and now I seem to be injured on a weekly basis sometimes semi seriously and DP is always ill, almost weekly he has to take a day off work.
I'm a big believer in Karma and the yang yang of the universe, could it really be that the perfectness of my relationship is offset by us being cursed to be ill or injured frequently.
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CursedLove · 21/07/2016 10:57
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