A Friend of mine put a comment on Facebook and it's proper irritated me. She put that it's not fare that she has to work throughout the summer holidays whilst other parents get the luxury of staying at home sitting on their arses and she's sick of seeing photos of families all having fun when she's stuck behind a desk all day. Now I'm pretty certain without wanting to come across as paranoid, it was aimed at me.
I'm more or less a sahm as I work on bank for an agency and when I do it's mainly at weekend or night shift when my dh is home (he works Mon-Fri 7am-6pm). So yes I get to have the majority of school holidays off with my two children but with my first (almost 11) I worked full time including a mixture of days and nights and rarely had time off, so when I had my second child (age 6) I wanted to be home more if possible, plus my dh works hard to bring in money for us.
So my friend has spent the last few weeks moaning on at me about how hard she works (three days a week 5hrs a day) so more or less the same amount of hours I do but longer days. She moans on and on about having to pay to put them in holiday club, but thousands of other people have to do the same, including me except when my eldest had to go she went every day more or less from 8am to 6pm not just a few days here and there, that's life I'm afraid.
The kids round here have been off for a week and like always I make sure my two have plenty of activities to be getting on with and we try and get out of the house somewhere every day if the weather is nice. So I've posted a few pics on Facebook at the park, crazy golf etc and I think basically the top and bottom of it is she's jealous. I'm not being mean here but when she is with her kids she does sod all with them and would rather palm them off with a few quid and then they go off playing on their own for most of the day. Don't get me wrong kids need to play with friends, my eldest dd is always out and about but I make sure I plan things for the holidays so we can spend time together and have fun. She doesn't seem to have the same priorities (fair enough) but don't make digs at me for being at home when it suits us as a family and for making an effort with my kids to spend time with them and have fun. Rant over but I'm preparing myself for being to IBU.
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curiousG · 20/07/2016 13:18
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