We live in a semi detached house with a couple next door who have 3 children , a 15yr old boy and two younger children who are 5 and 6 , they play well with our two who are around the same age. We've always got on and have a drink in the garden now and again and let the Kids play. The problem is on the occasion that when they aren't playing together say if my kids are at exH house, at their grandparents or even if they just don't want to play out sometimes (they do seem to get very clingy with my two and I can genuinely see they just want to play on their own now and then) the two kids just literally stand up at their fence and just stare! They will climb up on the raised area on there side , stand there and just do not seem to move or take a hint that it makes us uncomfortable. Now I know they are just kids but it does get to a point where I would expect mum and dad to tell them to get down and stop being nosy but they don't they just sit there sometimes on their phones and know full well that me and DH are say having a sit down in our garden with a drink or lunch and it just feels like I'm on show and being watched all the time. Sometimes when we decide to have a family BBQ with other family members and even they comment about how strange it feels and how odd it is that they aren't been told to get down. I like to do my yoga or sunbathe but just don't feel I can anymore. And the questions!! What are you doing? Why are you doing that? Is your kids playing out ? Why aren't they playing out ? When do they get back? And even though I tell them they are away for a few days they will still ask if they are coming home that day ! At first it was cute and I'm fully aware of their age and inquisitiveness but it has gone beyond that now. I just really can't get my head around why they are letting them stand out there all day and i am not exaggerating when I say all day! They have toys and a paddling pool. A tree house which I would live in!! We have tried ignoring them or shaping disinterest with short answers and I've even pretended to be asleep or putting my headphones in they just get louder! I mentioned to their mum the other day that "oh i was sunbathing the other day with my headphones in and your little one was talking to me I didnt realise for a while as I couldn't hear them I hope your didn't think I was being ignorant" or even "oh our little dd was stood at your fence looking over yesterday while you was having breakfast I didn't realise she was out there for ages I'm sorry I know how sometimes we just need our privacy don't we il make sure it doesn't happen again the little tinker"
Arrrrrgh sorry for the long rant I'm just sat in the house with my coffee because I know they are out there
It's the summer holidays and it's going to be everyday !!!
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to think they should stop their kids staring over the fence!
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ichoosesleep · 19/07/2016 09:32
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