Something happened from i was around 9 til 18 that involved her husband, i told her on numerous occaisions but she always made me feel as if i was lying so i told her i was. At one point id told her again, I was 18 and she kicked me out calling me a liar and chose him over me, again around xmas time i was so cold and needed to get back in the house as i couldnt get my own place, she said if i said i was lying i could come back in but was under very strict rules and had to pay my way, fair enough.
Come February i still couldnt get anywhere to live so i moved across water to live with my dad, long story short he took what money i had and got violent, police were called and he was arrested. Lived with his mum for a while (they dont get on, hes been violent to her) I move into my great aunts spare room (beautiful woman and extremely kind) i met my now fiance and we have two girls.
When i was pregnant with my first my mum moved over as she had left her husband, told me she believed me etc so she stayed with us in my partners place.
So she a few years later after her husband was over visiting their daughter he dies, says they were going to be getting back together and him moving there, that got me fuming as i had a young child and pregnant i would never my kids near her while he was there even though she thinks its fine.
Shes always telling me stuff about him or bringing him up and im tired of it, she says she believes me but then says she doesnt know what to think because she wasnt there... and she cant deal with it and im being selfish for needing her to talk to me about it, then she calls me a slut or someother name claims i begged him for it and im jealous of her then talks to me after a few days as if all is fine. Im tired of constantly trying to explain to her that for me talking about will do good according to her there is no point as she wasnt there...
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To think my mum should put my mental stability before her feelings?
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Psychomumsucks · 18/07/2016 17:22
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