Always namechange when I mention dh.
There are a lot of posters on mn who advise ltb, and who could really argue with the logic when we're talking about dv, risks to dc etc.
But I also see a lot of threads turn into massive LTB fests when discussing indequate (perhaps not the right word, maybe I mean dickhead) DHs.
Eg comment; "DH only does 10% of the housework, takes mil's side in everything and is always moody."
Response: "LTB"
Whilst I don't doubt that there are MNers that really would get rid, and have much higher standards than me, are more assertive than me and really just better at being grown women than I am (I admire them), aibu to ask if there are any wives out there that have no intention of ltb and why?
I won't list all of my dh's shortcomings (I did once and 2 different responses said "if this is even real.") but he is real and I"m sure there are lots of men like him, his friends are like him and they're also married.
I'm not desperate, I do have other options, but he was a lot kinder before marriage and dc and now I'm in too deep with the dc, in laws, inter-twined families, finances and lives, and I'm not brave enough to deal with the fall out from divorce and do actually love him so I dont ltb.
Anyone similar?
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Cleanhousedirtyhouse · 16/07/2016 13:21
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