So, really not sure about this one so wanted to get people's thoughts.
A while ago i was invited on a hen party at the start of September. The person who's hen it is i wouldn't say we are close friends but i see her socially probably once a month/every other month so I was pleased to get an invite and accepted. In the meantime have spent a considerable amount of money to pay for this hen do (think extended weekend break, various activities planned, fancy dress, the lot). A lot of people have let her down so in total there are now only about 10 of us going.
Her wedding is booked for the start of October and I found out this week wedding invites went out in may. I have seen this person quite a bit recently and no invite.
Now don't get me wrong I never expected to be invited to the daytime ceremony but seeing as she has invited me on the hen party and I am one of the ten people who are making the effort to go and make this a good weekend for her I thought I would be invited to the evening do. To make things worse I know this is a big wedding and the couple have paid for a massive package so its not your small intimate wedding with only a few guests.
I know its your wedding and its up to you who you invite (and normally I am the person who harps on about don't worry about upsetting people and sometimes,within reason, you need to be ruthless and do what you want) but I can't see why you would invite someone to your hen party and not your wedding. AIBU to be a bit miffed about this?
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PinkDucks · 15/07/2016 09:46
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