Don't know if I'm being over sensitive
Lived here 2 years and have a make cat of 3
He loves being outside and doesn't like being in even at night however the lady who lives ( alone, mid 50s ) but one to us kept bringing him home at 8pm as she's a cat lover and hers had been killed at night by a car
All fine, she was slightly over bearing and he would go into her house every time I went out for treats and food and to be petted
She would take pictures of him and show them to me of an evening
No harm done until the next door neighbour knocked a few months ago, angry that he would go into her kitchen if the door was open at eat her cats food, through the window at the front too and that her cats hated him and there was lots of hissing going on.
I apologised and gave her my permission to squirt him with water in hope that would stop it
Seems not as now he's gone into her garden, had a fight with her cat and she's throwing a £200 cat bill at me.
I burst into tears ( my mums just been diagnosed with cancer ) and she just stood there stony faced saying she's never had any cats behaving like this before and doesn't understand why
I did explain that he might be confused as very welcome in the house next door and obviously he has to pass her garden to there
She said she was not happy about any of it as she did the same to her cats for 5 years and now is to ours so hers noses are out of joint but her issue is our cat going into her garden / house
He just won't stop and get the message
Feeling very overwhelmed and upset
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To be upset over neighbour shouting at me over cat :(
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user1468485204 · 14/07/2016 23:10
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