I have a 22 month old and have difficulties getting her settled to sleep easily. I've started being more strict with an evening routine, and part of that is quiet time before supper. I can't do this in her room because it's tiny, only big enough for her cot. I'd like her to sometimes watch a bit of cbeebies, or read or cuddle with soothing music on. However, my step children, all older teens, end up hanging around in the living room chatting or putting films on. They've each got their own rooms with TVs and WiFi but like to gather sociably downstairs. Which is fine, but I'd rather they didn't for an hour or so around the toddler's bedtime.
If I don't get her calmed and in the mood for bed, I'm usually stuck trying to get her to sleep until 10pm. DP said it's unfair to tell them they can't be in their own living room every night, but I think it's unfair that I give up all my evenings fighting a toddler to sleep. DP works most evenings so I can't say 'well you sort the bedtime routine out then'.
Before anyone suggests it, the house isn't big enough for me to use another quiet room to let her relax and play, but like I say they all have decent sized bedrooms with TVs, laptops, gaming etc in. Two of their bedrooms are big enough for them all to congregate in if they wish to watch stuff together.
Am I being unfair to put my foot down with this? I've already had to stop them having the living room TV on all day every day as the toddler just ends up gawping at it and ignoring her toys & activities.
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To tell the teens they can't watch TV in the living room around the toddler's bedtime?
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BigBollards · 12/07/2016 20:41
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