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Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:00:35

Semi been asked out over text. It was a bit of a rubbish asking out, he basucally said he would be in x place so to let him know if I was around... blush We have been on dates before but not for a while (long story) so this is definitely what it is! Reply now or later? He's shy I think if that makes a difference.

MooPointCowsOpinion Sun 10-Jul-16 00:01:48

Did he ask you out just now?

Crunchymum Sun 10-Jul-16 00:01:57

Have you had sex?

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:03:22

No we haven't. Yeah like 10 minutes ago, it's not a booty call btw, we don't live nearby. He means in general.

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:04:00

I think this is his way, we've been texting as just recently got back in touch

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:04:59

Reply now! Although a midnight reply might give the wrong impression grin

But def reply soon. Game playing, however well intended, does not a good relationship bode.

Good luck and let us know how it goes

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:05:31


Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:07:23

Should I just reply now? I've been leaving it a few hours between our other texts blush

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:08:53

Do you want to chat right now?

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:09:24

What is your history?

MooPointCowsOpinion Sun 10-Jul-16 00:11:31

Just reply, no leaving it a few hours, that's cold.

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:23:38

Ok fair enough, I'm not trying to play games, just feel like it's a bit keen to reply instantly?

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:24:10

History = been on a couple of dates then I went away now back in touch.

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:28:19

So presumably you got back in touch with him first to let him know you were back?

NoahVale Sun 10-Jul-16 00:30:17

go for it.

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:31:24

No he did... Randomly!

NoahVale Sun 10-Jul-16 00:31:51

if this was a friend, and you received a gtext, you woudl reply immediatley no queiston?

SevenFtBride Sun 10-Jul-16 00:32:24

He sounds keen! How attracted to him are you?

WorraLiberty Sun 10-Jul-16 00:35:50

Don't play games, it's not fair especially if he's shy.

If you want to say yes, then be adult about it and let him know.

Galantymessss Sun 10-Jul-16 00:40:35

Yeah but at midnight? Text now?

WorraLiberty Sun 10-Jul-16 00:42:33

I'm not sure why the time matters?

Are you afraid of waking him up? It's up to him to put his phone on silent if he's gone to bed.

Tartyflette Sun 10-Jul-16 00:52:50

Could you not reply saying something like
"That sounds nice, we can sort out the details tomorrow/later"
Or similar

Ginkypig Sun 10-Jul-16 01:09:24

Either you want to or you don't.

If you dnot then reply in the morning.

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