I posted yesterday about how my relationship with my parents is not how I would like it to be. So many responses detailing similar situations left me saddened. I know this is a massive generalisation but it seems that in some cultures the family unit is a lot closer whereas in typical Western families there is a huge emphasis on being ultra independent rather than co-existing together. The saying 'it takes a village' seems obsolete now, at least on my family anyway. It makes me want to ask the question of how to do you picture your life when your DC have children of their own? I would like to be very involved but not interfering or overbearing, I wouldn't want to be more involved than what was wanted ifyswim. I just think that grandparents can be such a wonderful addition to your life and I want to be as helpful and supportive as I can be when my DC become parents themselves. I wouldn't want my children to feel like they couldn't call on me for emotional support and sometimes practical help. I'm not talking about looking after them all the time, just being present and making the effort. I think my parents have never really enjoyed doing things that children want to do, it was like that when j was growing up. I adore doing things with my DC so guess there's are fundamental difference there. I feel like there's another part to this question but I will do a separate post..
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MrsMedlock · 09/07/2016 09:45
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