I started a new job a month ago. It's in a large open plan office with about 30 of us in. I sit in a group of tables with two other women of a similar age to me (late thirties).
Both have been, to be blunt, absolute fucking bitches since I started. For the first few days I tried to make a bit of minor chit chat with them but they both answered with one word answers or in a very snappy way to me, yet are friendly and chatty with each other and to everyone else.
When I arrive at work and say hello to them they just ignore me. They ignore me when I go home and say bye to them.
In the past few days they have done this thing of discussing everyone else in the office loudly and saying how much they like them and what a brilliant person they are.
They also organised a night out for tomorrow night and loudly called across the whole office to everyone, one by one, to invite them on the night out. I was not invited.
AIBU to think they are complete bitches? Today and yesterday I just disengaged from them both and acted like they weren't there. I'll be polite if they speak to me but I will never be 'friends' with either of them after how they have behaved to me these past few weeks.
Oh, and another lady started the same day as me and they are perfectly fine with her, so it's clearly me! And they are both really good friends with the manager so there is nothing I can do about their behaviour.
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To think new colleagues are total bitches?
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ElephantSuperhero · 08/07/2016 23:33
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