Hi Mumsnet,
Really curious as to feedback on this. Not to debate whether smoking is stupid (it is), expensive (it is), unhealthy (it is), smelly (it is). I am a considerate smoker (guests, children, nearby others elsewhere, where is okay to smoke vs not). However, I AM a smoker and make no secret of it.
If someone chooses to - ahem - become intimate with one despite this abhorrent habit, how okay is it subsequently to start saying "I'm not kissing you because I can taste cigarette"? Despite much toothpaste/mouthwash which granted isn't totally effective.
I'm all for choice and would be absolutely fine if someone wasn't interested in me because of it, I just find it a bit odd to BE interested shag someone and then object a few days later that it's so ghastly. Informed choice at the outset or consideration that should be applied by me vs a pretty ingrained habit that was never hidden?
The guy turned out to be a knob jockey on many levels but I'm interested in the views about this. I guess it could apply to other habits generally, but smoking is held to be particularly abhorrent. Like I say, please I'm not asking opinion on smoking being a good thing or not, more about the view on whether that as a life choice should be anticipated to be squashed immediately.
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FantaIsFine · 07/07/2016 21:02
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