So my friend who is very dominant asked me to come out with her for an expensive night. I said it was too much cash so she said ok can you babysit then? I should have not been such a wuss and said neither but I said ok I will babysit. I have four small children myself including toddler twins btw. I was thinking I have enough on my plate as it is. Oh and I have never asked anyone to babysit for me before so this is not payback babysitting. I think my 4 DC would be too much for my friends so have never imposed. I offered to come over to my friends house to babysit she said she would rather I had baby at my house. She also said maybe baby should stay the night too to make it easier for me. I though heck no that is not happening so I said no I will wait up for her to pick up the baby that evening. . Friend said ok and then said I just want to make it easier for you. Baby was to come over at 3pm till 1am ish. So it got to the weekend the day before I wa die to babysit and it was a gorgeous sunny weekend. We were invited to a mutual friends house for early dinner the next day. My kids would love it nice big garden for us to picnic in and their friends were there. Myself and the friends that invited us do not drink alcohol so it would have been a calm dinner. Just a family friendly thing for the kids. Anyhow I asked the friend I was babysitting for if it was ok to bring her baby with me for 2 hours for dinner. She knows the mutual friends and likes them. She replied ok. The next morning (the day I was babysitting) she text me at 7am saying she is really not ok with me taking her baby out with me and has had a screaming row with her DH who couldn't see the problem. She then said she was really upset. I was a bit put out but offered (I think like a wimp) to let DH to take my dc and I would instead come and babysit. She made me feel really bad for suggesting to take the baby out and then at the last min said I could take the baby. She was stroppy and unappreciative. Was I in the wrong?
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