Was in hospital last night for the 67747854 millionth time, due to complicated pregnancy and previous full term stillbirth last year.
I see a different midwife every visit, which is absolutely fine. I don't at all mind explaning what happened to the DC we lost, from scratch every time. What I do mind is the blank stare this is normally met with, before they start monitoring me or dash off somewhere.
I mean FFS I know they see their fair share of trauma, but is it that fucking hard to acknowledge the fairly hideous circumstances I'm in? To just say 'I'm sorry to hear that' or something?
If someone even says to me, in passing, my dog/granny/parent died last year, I'd always be human enough to acknowledge that.
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To think 'I'm sorry [for your loss]' is not that fucking hard to say!
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KimberlySnark · 03/07/2016 16:25
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