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JLeeAmor Sun 03-Jul-16 10:56:57

Hi MN
Me and my partner have had an ongoing argument,
Basically he works 6days a week and only has Sunday's off but he goes to his dad's with our son Sunday's, I don't go cos he feels it's giving me a rest but when i ask him can we do something as a family or spend time together he's like you know I go to my dads Sunday's and it's always been the way.
Am I being unreasonable to want to have time to spend with him or even our son too?
Feel like cos he works with his dad lives in his dad's house he has to do this?
What would you do?

monkeysox Sun 03-Jul-16 11:00:58

Alternate weekends would be fair. You need time as your little family too.

WorraLiberty Sun 03-Jul-16 11:02:58

YANBU, he should be spending some family time with you and your son as well.

He lives in his Dad's house?

Arfarfanarf Sun 03-Jul-16 11:51:49

Not at all.
It's quite an odd set up really. If he lives with his dad and works with his dad he sees his dad far more than he sees you.
I dont think it would be unreasonable to have at least a couple of family days a month.

Does he tell you you cant go to his dad's? Are you sure he's actually there and not having his dad have your son whole he goes to the pub or wherever?
Id be going with them tbh. Not told to stay home. Sod that.

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