My MIL and I don't have a great relationship and I know she doesn't like my parenting style but we muddle along together.
We've had a few disagreements mainly because I like to do things my way and she wants me to do things her way. Things are OK at the moment so I don't want to rock the boat but something is really niggling me.
She only sees the kids once a week so I don't know if I'm blowing this out of perspective. She always calls my children names like a little villain, dope, git, plonker, idiot. When my DD wet herself she called her dirty. She then says, what are you a dirty girl and makes her repeat it.
I know it's only once a week and they (my DD really as my other child is a baby so doesn't understand) get lots of positive reinforcement the rest of the week but surely that's not good for your self esteem?
Also I've had to tell my DD to stop calling me a plonker! Yes nanny says it but we don't use words like that in this house.
AIBU and should I just put up with it for the sake of keeping the peace? If not how do I say something without causing another fall out?
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AIBU to not want my MIL to speak so negatively to my DCs
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Geevis · 02/07/2016 20:20
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