I really dont know whether im being unreasonable or not here.
My dd is nearly 4 and repeats alot of things! Im trying to bring her up to be respectful and with manners etc.
However my mother keeps teaching dd things i dont like. For example...
My mum burps and says dirty pig straight away instead of excuse me. Dd then repeats dirty pig straightaway. My thinks this is hilarious! I on the other hand correct dd straightaway.
Another one is dd was annoying my mum today (my mum isnt particularly child friendly) and my mum asked dd if she wanted a "clout" im not sure how to spell it but it basically means a smack.
She would NEVER smack her but dd then asked my mum if she wanted a clout!
I do not like dd being taught these things! I pull my mum up on it everytime but she says im not letting dd be a kid and im always saying dont do this, that etc.
Anyway when i was brushing dds teeth the other day (something she hates) she asked me if i wanted a smack!!!!!!
How do i get round this??
At the moment im telling dd that its naughty what nanna says and we musnt say naughty things etc.
My mum was the same with me as a child and i dont want dd growing up like i did. I ve had to teach myself people skills as an adult etc.
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To not want my mother teaching dd naughty behaviour?
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SaveSomeSpendSome · 02/07/2016 18:01
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