I've just been fast tracked to see a sarcoma specialist for a lump I've had for a long time and am currently anxiously waiting as it's all moving very fast.
I've only told my mum, one of my sisters and one friend so far.
My mum decided to tell all her choir group, her 'bible study' and church group AND some of her family I hardly ever see.
I've not even been diagnosed yet and am finding it a very worrying time as I have 3 children under 7.
I just feel this isn't right. This is my business surely?
Some years ago when I was travelling abroad I got seriously ill with malaria and very nearly lost it and she did exactly the same. These are people I dodn't even know!
She gives the excuse that she's getting them to 'pray' for me ect.
I don't have a close relationship with her but she does help me out practically and I her. Everything somehow turns back to how 'she' is suffering and I feel that both times she has told people (and she starts the tears and everything too) it i for them to feel sorry for her if that makes sense?
I know people will probably come on here saying 'your mum is worried' or she is is upset but I know my mum and I just do not thing this is the case.
Every conversation we have turns back to her so tbh i don't talk in depth to her as |I don't really think she's listening anyway.
Sorry to rant but I just don't need this.
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