I moved to another town with my son 10 years ago after my husband and I divorced. I had really good reasons for moving (200 miles), but probably still felt guilty and did everything I could to keep my daughter in contact with my Ex. I have always been the main resident carer, we separated when our child was a baby.
I struggle and now have a HUGE debt. I can never afford to take my daughter on holidays yet the Ex takes her away for fun exotic holidays. Ex takes no interest in any parenting, like schooling.
My problem is, I get regular abuse from the Ex - he changes the dates at the last minute, or asks for extra dates, he is bitter and vindictive. I had almost accepted being in debt, just thought it was the right thing to do, but what is the point if Ex just tells me and our daughter that I've ruined their relationship a way?
I am utterly sick of this. I don't want to continue paying for these, they are never enough and I want to claw back some stability.
But I know that I'm going to get an awful lot of abuse for Ex. What do I do?
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Veryveryveryfedup · 30/06/2016 11:44
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