My dad has a terminal illness and is waiting to hear if he has been accepted on to a transplant list. He blurted out to me that he has a year to live if he does not get accepted - my mum was really annoyed and told him that he shouldn't have told me without discussing with her first.
I have siblings that are unaware of this news and my mum has told me that if my dad was to be accepted they (mum and dad) would never have told us about his life expectancy.
I think she is being really unreasonable and that as his children we have the right to know all the facts and prepare ourselves. I don't think she is being fair on me either - I would be most angry if I found out my siblings knew something so important and they hadn't told me, it's a very awkward position to be in.
So, what do you think? Is my mum being U and also WWYD in my position?
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aggyannie · 30/06/2016 11:04
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