Hi, so I apologize in advance because this doesn't belong in AIBU but I'm really upset right now and I just don't know what to do...and since you guys seem to have a lot more life experience than me, I thought I'd trying asking for advice. I'll try to keep it short and sweet:
I'm an American college student, and as I'm sure you know, college is really expensive here. While I won't make assumptions about everyone, I will say that in my circle of friends (and at my college), it's 100% assumed your parents are paying or signing off your loans for college unless they don't have the means to. So this means that my parent is supporting me through college and I really couldn't do it without parental help. I think this is a huge cultural difference because our colleges are so expensive - I honestly don't know anyone who's paying for college here without their parents unless they're on full scholarship. (And I'm sure that not everyone in my country is like this but in terms of who I know this is how it is)
Over the course of my college career, I've come to the conclusion that what I originally came to college for just isn't for me. Now that's fine because it's really easy to switch around your major here, and it's not a big deal for me to do that. I've decided on something I think I'll like better (economics).
The problem is that my parent doesn't believe I should switch, or if I do switch, I need to be going into engineering, computer science, or finance. I honestly would just go off and do what I want, but my parent has said that they'll cut off all financial support. They don't believe that economics is a viable major, while I think it's pretty applicable (but also this may be just me I'm only 20 so I'm not trying to pretend I know shit about the world). They think that I'll end up working at Starbucks on minimum wage, so they're not going to support me if I do this. Basically I've been getting a lot of "you're not going anywhere in life, you're not going to get a job, have fun working at McDonald's" kind of thing.
I guess my question is now, do you have any advice on how to talk to my parent? I ended up crying, and we were only texting, so I know with an actual phone call it'll be even worse. Any advice about any of this post would be really appreciated. I know that because my parent is supporting me, I do need to take their considerations into account, but what they suggest I do is not what I want to do. Also if anyone has a degree in economics, how did you find your job prospects? (Is my parent right? Are they really that awful?) Really, if you guys think that I should do what my parent says then I'll take your advice on board - I promise I'm not here just to ignore all your advice or troll you guys or anything awful! :D
Thank you in advance for any and all advice! (And sorry again that this isn't in the right section...and also that this post didn't end up being very short or sweet).
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IcedApples · 29/06/2016 05:49
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