Pretending to be asleep to see what DH will do.

[pinksugarmouse]

So I pretend I'm asleep to see if DH will masturbate, I don't know why - it triggered when I had HG and was too ill for sex, he's never actually done anything in all these times but I lay there stiff as a mouse and each time he moves my heart starts thudding so hard like 'here we go' till sometimes I have to pretend I've had a bad dream because I actually cannot breathe.

[2nds]

Huh?

[Pinkheart5915]

What ?

[BeYourselfUnlessUCanBeAUnicorn]

I'm very confused as to why you think he will masturbate next to you if he has never done it.

[DeathStare]

If it bothers you that much why haven't you talked to him about it?

This might be better on Relationships by the way

[GiddyOnZackHunt]

Anxiety. You need a chat with someone professional.

[pinksugarmouse]

It's like an obsession now, waiting for him to do it. I'm so tired of laying there all the time waiting when I'm so in need of sleep!!

[pinksugarmouse]

Really Giddy? In worried of what they'll think of me. I know it's not normal behaviour and I'm embarrassed to tell my husband that I do this.

[WholeAgain]

That sounds a bit strange.

[BestZebbie]

What do you think it will demonstrate if he does masturbate?

[pinksugarmouse]

That he doesn't want me, I'm not sure completely. I plan scenarios where I catch him and confront him...

[ABCAlwaysBeCunting]

When he starts pulling, jump up and scream really loudly. That'll put him off.

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

What do you think will happen if he does?

[PolaroidsFromTheBeyond]

So if he did have a wank, what about it would bother you?

The fact that he's doing it in bed or the fact that he's doing it at all?

[BastardGoDarkly]

Yeah, that's something you really need to get help with, it sounds awful.

And he's never actually done it? How long has this been going on op?

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Don't you ever?

[PolaroidsFromTheBeyond]

But he thinks you're asleep! Who would want to be woken up becuse their partner is horny? I certainly wouldn't.

[pinksugarmouse]

Since September 14' 😳
I don't even know what I'd do/say/think.

I just get obsessed with the unknown each time I go to bed, can't sleep till I hear him snoring... He's so loyal and faithful too, I feel like such a crappy wife.

[Milkmachine15]

Why does it matter if he masturbates?! Are you still having sex? Perhaps he feels unwanted so doesn't want to bother you with it?

[pinksugarmouse]

Yes we still have sex, regularly. No issues there at all....

[pinksugarmouse]

It's almost like I want to see if he does it?

[PolaroidsFromTheBeyond]

But why shouldn't he? It's his body, he can have a wank if he wants. Surely you must ocassionally masterbate without him present?

[RealityCheque]

so you think masturbation is wrong? Are you a nun?

[pinksugarmouse]

To be honest I don't, I've not got a high sex drive.

I don't mind if he wanks though, it's just the obsession of him doing it with me there I don't know what's wrong with me ahhhh!

[PolaroidsFromTheBeyond]

Just ask him about it. There's no need for all this angst.

There's nothing wrong with him having an occasional solo wank.