AIBU in thinking that this is not appropriate?

[justnotaballetmum]

Family member has photo of DD (2) as screensaver on their phone. It's a sweet photo of her after a bath but she's not wearing anything. Would I be a bit fussy to express discontent with this? (BTW I'm not suggesting for a moment there's anything horrible or inappropriate, it's more how DD might feel about it when she's older.)

[abbieanders]

They'll probably change their screen saver by the time she is old enough to care.

[BerylMeeps]

No YANBU not as a screensaver. I love cutesy bath time pics, but wouldn't leave it on my phone in full view, I just don't PERSONALLY feel it's very appropriate.

However it would need careful wording as to how to approach it.

[Oysterbabe]

I wouldn't be happy with that as it's too visible to anyone glancing at the phone.
Just ask them to use a different one.

[justnotaballetmum]

Yeah, will do thanks - it's just a bit

[Msqueen33]

How did family member get hold of the photo? I'm quite careful with what photos people have of the kids as I don't know how they'll use them.

[Birdsgottafly]

Is it just from the waist up?

My GD, 19 months, has the adorable toddler fat rolls and I've got a few pictures on my phone.

I love her toddler Chunkyness.

It depends on exactly what you can see on the picture.

[justnotaballetmum]

She has her back to the camera so you can see a bit of her bottom. They took the photo (I'm not a fan of photos without clothing, myself.)

[WorraLiberty]

A bit of her bottom?

YABU.

Anyway, if her back is to the camera, how is anyone going to know it's her?

[babyboomersrock]

If her back's to the camera - assuming you can't see her face - what's the point of having the photo?

[NinaSimoneful]

I think it's a bit odd to have a pic of someone else's child as your screensaver. Unless it's a grandparent.

[VimFuego101]

I thought the same, babyboomer

[Oysterbabe]

TBH I wouldn't let anyone else take naked photos of my kids.

[alltouchedout]

I don't care about naked photos that exist of me when I was a child. I wouldn't take a naked photo of someone else's child but I have photos of mine unclothed. I don't find it an issue. Mind you, before I share any photos of the dc I ask them if it's ok- well I have done since they were about 5, the baby still doesn't get a say, mostly because his response to most things is unintelligible.

[FeliciaJollygoodfellow]

Personally I can't get worked up about this.

If as an adult they're really upset by a picture of them nude as a toddler, then there's probably more going on that needs to be looked into.

I keep my Facebook etc locked down because I don't want all and sundry having access to my photos but if one was shared without my knowledge, it'd be no big deal. Because I don't take pictures that are indecent, ie, spread eagled!