So 4/5 years ago my daughters best friend since nursery suddenly started to bully her with another girl at school. This bullying started in Year 2 and the school handled it very badly and we were unable to resolve the situation. We had also been family friends with this family. Finally we removed my daughter form the school in Year 5 and sent her to another school. She's settled and happy and now in Year 7. I've cut all ties with this other mother/family as obviously we don't share the same values and it was a very traumatic time for my daughter. The other mother tried to be friendly and say hello, etc to me for a very long time afterwards and it got to the point that I just had to blank her completely. She appeared to finally get the message and once the children moved up to Year 7 I rarely see her at the old school but do occasionally as our other younger children are still there but thankfully in different years. My husband has only ever dropped off or picked up very sporadically but she always comes over to him and says hello and hugs and kisses him. He's uncomfortable with this (especially as she never hugged or kissed him when we were friends) but he doesn't know what to do. This week she passed me when I was in the school office, definitely saw me and went outside to where my daughter (the one that was bullied) was waiting with her 4 year old sibling and she went up to them and address him by name, started ruffling his hair and asked my daughter how she was and how her new school was!!! She wouldn't dare do this in front of me so I think it's completetly unreasonable to do this when I'm not around. My son actually asked his sister why this lady was touching him and knew his name. AIBU to think she is overstepping the mark to have contact with my kids, talk to the one that was bullied and touch the other one who doesn't even know who she is, especially when she knows I will not talk to or acknowledge her?
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AIBU to think this mother has overstepped the mark - bear with me it's a long story!
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user1466794492 · 24/06/2016 20:15
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