...to wonder why DH has sent a friend request to what looks like a woman he and his friends met on a recent jolly?

(163 Posts)
1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:00:02

Saw it on his FB page as it came up XX and XX are now friends and looks like he friend requested her.... so after doing some research looks like her and her friend who on hols the same time as DH and his friends. So what to do...

mouldycheesefan Wed 22-Jun-16 12:01:19

Friend request her yourself and introduce yourself as his wife?

Letmehaveausername Wed 22-Jun-16 12:03:02

Why would you want to do anything? He's made a friend, perfectly normal thing to do... Unless he's cheated on you before then that's a whole different story...

PrivatePike Wed 22-Jun-16 12:04:17

Maybe she sent him the friend request

Believeitornot Wed 22-Jun-16 12:06:53

Ask him?

ErNope Wed 22-Jun-16 12:07:16

SHOCK HORROR. HE MADE A FRIEND :O :O
Really OP? Paranoid much?

WickedLazy Wed 22-Jun-16 12:08:39

Has he mentioned her before or since? Did he just add her or a whole clatter of people?

1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:09:07

I will ask him who the woman in the photos are that is draped all over him is

ChocolateButton15 Wed 22-Jun-16 12:10:59

If he had something to hide he wouldn't add her to fb surely? I think it's fine.

mrsmugoo Wed 22-Jun-16 12:11:43

Don't you allow your husband to make female friends?

How bizarre.

WickedLazy Wed 22-Jun-16 12:12:22

Draped all over him doesn't sound good. Like hugging him from behind, or sitting in his lap? Have they added any of his mates?

Scarftown Wed 22-Jun-16 12:12:43

Have any of the other guys made friends with her?

OvertiredandConfused Wed 22-Jun-16 12:13:02

Not sure I'd even notice if my DH added a female friend and I'd be pretty cheesed off if he questioned me adding male friends.

KittyKrap Wed 22-Jun-16 12:14:52

I will ask him who the woman in the photos are that is draped all over him is

I'd have asked him about that as soon as I saw them!

WickedLazy Wed 22-Jun-16 12:17:14

If my dp makes a new friend, he mentions it. But then we love a good gossip/post mortum.

Does he have form op?

Windsofwinter Wed 22-Jun-16 12:20:50

See a solicitor, immediately.

On behalf of your H of course, who may wish to rethink things upon realising he's unable to make new friends hmm

80sMum Wed 22-Jun-16 12:21:53

My DH only has female friends! The only males he interacts with socially are incidental, being the DHs or DPs of said friends.

1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:22:24

I noticed as it popped up on FB and I wanted to know as Im sure we all would particularly as she was very, very pretty. So he's gone to the effort of finding this person after being back nearly 2 weeks. You friend request someone when you want to keep in touch surely???

DH is useless at FB and wouldn't realise that it would pop up that he and XX are now friends.

He'd never mentioned a thing. None of the 11 guys who went out are friends by the looks of it.

I will ask tonight when I go home who the pretty girl he has friend requested is. He def friend requested as it came up XX has accept your friend request

LaConnerie Wed 22-Jun-16 12:22:49

Sorry but that was a little bit of a drip feed OP?

There seems to be more to this story than them just being friends on FB - where did you see the pics? And what exactly were they doing in them?

1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:25:57

Saw the pics on her photos... her setting must be open for all to see

CrazyDuchess Wed 22-Jun-16 12:26:13

as others have suggested - ask him??

MoonfaceAndSilky Wed 22-Jun-16 12:26:44

I will ask him who the woman in the photos are that is draped all over him is

Where is this photo, on the facebook page?

MoonfaceAndSilky Wed 22-Jun-16 12:28:00

Oh, they were on her photos. Well I would be more concerned about the photos rather than the friend request!!

1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:28:02

In her hol folders

1million Wed 22-Jun-16 12:28:54

Folder was marked up "Best of Brighton 2016"

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