Will start by making it totally clear that I am not a fan.
I'm just wondering what thoughts and opinions are out there about this method of punishment mainly because for some reason recently I have been thinking about things in my childhood and I'm incredibly bothered by memories of these perticular punishments.
I'm not bothered (to the same level) by the horrendous beatings almost ritual humiliations and verbal and emotional abuse and things that even back then were none negotiable none subjective abuse that's sort of dealt with if that makes sense.
But I'm running around in my head things like the "you must lean down slightly and put your nose on this circle I have drawn and not move until I say so" or the " balence on this stool (bar stool I have a photo of it but person now describes it as a foot stool) on one leg with your arms straight out for as long as it takes me to feel you have been punished enough"
Those things almost appear to have had more of an impact on my emotional health than anything else, fwiw they also had no impact what so ever on my conduct if anything they made me worse even if it is hard to understand and define worse because I don't remember anything that I was caught for that was really bad but the way my childhood is reported by the person who was responsible for this stuff is that I was on a par with Charles Manson.
None of this is recent history it's all years and years ago and I have no idea why it's now playing on my mind, I guess I'm interested to know if anybody thinks this tyoe of punishment is reasonable or acceptable
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NeedsAsockamnesty · 22/06/2016 11:52
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