To tell exP to do it himself

[Mari50]

Recently split from DD's dad, he commented that he needs to get some clothes and underwear for her to keep at his and that he'll give me the money if I pick them up. AIBU to tell him to get to fuck and he can go to the shop or online himself and get whatever he wants. Apparently he might get the sizes wrong- I advised him to look at the labels of what she's wearing. He accused me of being difficult.

[TheWeeBabySeamus1]

YANBU at all. Why is that your job to do? You are responsible for ensuring your DD has what she needs while she is with you and vice versa.

[SabineUndine]

Tell him you're DD's mother, not his.