I'm getting married in 2 months time and today has my hair and makeup trial. I had read lots of reviews and decided to go with this lady.
As background: I am North African with dark skin. Not quite black but could definitely be mistaken for African Caribbean. My hair is very very curly and frizzy but straightens without too much hassle. I've avoided lots of heat over the last few years which has helped it's condition.
The trial was at my parents home which is local to where I'll be getting married.
The lady was very nice and professional, she has a very slick website and has been shortlisted for wedding industry awards. I felt I was in safe hands.
As the trial progressed (3 hours) it became clear she wasn't accustomed to dealing with my hair type or complexion. My up do which I had requested wasn't great and quite frizzy with a very 90s style. I'm generally quite assertive so pointed out what I liked and didn't but the overall look wasn't great. She assured me it would look different on the day with spray and wax.
The makeup is where things started to go wrong. I couldn't see what she was doing as I was sat away from the mirror for most of the trial. I explained that I wanted a natural look- not too much makeup just something that would look nice. I don't wear lot of makeup.
She finished and asked me to have a look.
When I looked in the mirror I was shocked- she had made me look almost white, a fair few shades lighter than my complexion with a very cakey looked. The eye shadow was applied beautifully but the colours and quantity were all wrong - I didn't look like myself.
I said that it was too light and could we go closer to my natural skin tone.
Second time round was slightly better but so so heavy and still too white. It was clear she didn't know what to do with my skin tone.
My mum didn't like it either. I politely said I just didn't like it sorry. I asked her how much I could pay her for her time and paid this immediately - it was almost £100.
I said I didn't want to mess her around so I'd be looking for somebody with more experience with dark skinned women. She said that in her many years of experience this had never happened before and she just left. She was clearly very upset.
I've sent photos to my bridesmaids and they are shocked that she is a pro.
I feel very guilty as it's nearly the summer season and this has been in her diary for a long time. Was I unreasonable?
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AIBU?
AIBU to have sacked my hair and makeup lady for my wedding?
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coralpig · 10/06/2016 19:55
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