A little while ago I moved in with a good friend, who was in a LTR with a man who lived abroad. His plan was always to come to the UK to be with her (they were a few months into their relationship, early 20s) but she was adamant that she didn't want them to live together and only wanted a 2 bed house. He arrived about 2 months into our house contract and lived with us full-time for 2 months, perhaps more. He then found his own room bit was always round the house. I was still paying half the rent and half the bills. Eventually he moved back to his home country a few months later. They broke up shortly after when she moved away with work and decided she wanted to live independently. AIBU to still be slightly resentful about this and feel very used?! I did not get an apology even though I very in characteristically kicked off after enduring months of the same behaviour. Originally she had promised to find him a place straight away but that was never going to happen. We are still friends but when I really focus on this it consumes me! I would never ever be able to treat someone like this. Sometimes I'm tempted to just drop her...
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