Our baby was unwell at the weekend, she had a temperature, was crying a lot and refusing to feed. Shes our pfb, neither of us know what we're doing. I asked DH if he thought we should take her to A&E. He said yes if I think that we should.
Every day I ask him what he would like for dinner, sometimes giving a few options. He always says he doesn't mind. I asked him. If he wanted tea or coffee this morning and he said he didn't mind. He doesn't mind what we do at the weekend, which pub we go to, what film we watch etc etc.
You only have to spend an afternoon with his family to see where he got this from.
MIL: what shall we do this afternoon?
FIL: I don't mind, what would you like to do?
MIL: I'm happy to along with whatever you want.
This can go on and on for an hour with no one showing any kind of preference for what they would like to do. I get it. They're all quite insecure and people pleasers, I am too actually, but ffs someone make a decision!!
WIBU to stop asking him about his preferences and do whatever I want in order to avoid the murderous rage at him saying he doesn't mind a million times a day?
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To make all the decisions without asking DH?
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Oysterbabe · 08/06/2016 11:33
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