Not the most tantalising of subject matters but I was approached on my way home from the school run by a mother (let's call her X) who's daughter is in my son's nursery. This woman has seen me plenty over recent months, even pulled her car over so her daughter can shout hello, so to be approached with a casual "Oh I've been meaning to talk to you" didn't come across as that sincere, but any way I digress. Her house is at the end of my garden and I have a large fir tree at the end which I have kept tamed as much as I can as a working single mum. I like my tree because it blocks out their view of my garden (their houses are raised above my garden) X said "I don't know how you'd feel about us chopping the tree down" going on to explain that it blocks out her sun and she's such a massive sun lover. I said well the question has to be asked why did you buy a house with a north facing garden and a giant great big tree at the end of it? She said "Oh I know but the house is perfect" X said that she wouldn't take off any branches she just wanted the top taken off (about 4 foot) By this point I was just wanting to leave the convo so i said that I didn't want the bulk of it touched because it shields my garden from view but if she just wanted the top taken off than that was fine. X said "Oh good because I've taken photos and spoken to my tree surgeon friend already" so it did creep me out a little that she's taking photos and felt a little like she had decided and was just asking me as a formality. After she ended our convo with "well I'll let you know when we plan on doing anything" Half Term came and went which we went away for. Yesterday I had a lady round who lives on the same row of houses as her and she said "So I saw X's husband cutting your branches" and when they mentioned it the couple said that I had agreed that they could do it. Initially when I saw my tree I thought there were branches missing but dismissed it. Now the branches weren't over hanging their fence because if they were I wouldn't have had a problem, they were just obviously blocking her precious sun. Incidently my friend who is neighbour of X asked if it was alright to chop the branches on her side as they were over hanging her trampoline and their fence and I had said go for your life. So I feel that X has asked, got an answer and then waited for me to not be there and leant over to cut them off; and when I say leant, they would have had to climb on the roof of their shed lean over their fence, reached across and cut them off! I have her DD party to go to and really don't want to as I may something which I regret, am I being unreasonable??
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