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Aibu to be offended?

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sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:11:48

A man when very drunk compared me and supermodelfriend to first division and premier league, looks-wise?! What does this even mean.

TroysMammy Tue 07-Jun-16 16:13:18

It means he's a twat.

nobilityobliges Tue 07-Jun-16 16:13:27

Well, yeah that was obviously an offensive thing to say. But he was obviously a cock so I wouldn't dwell on it.

CaptainCrunch Tue 07-Jun-16 16:13:32

That he's a stupid sexist cunt and drunk to boot?

TheHiphopopotamus Tue 07-Jun-16 16:13:47

It means he's an arsehole who shouldn't be let loose in public.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:13:57

Yes I thought so... Out of interest am I right in thinking first division are significantly shitter than premier league?

CaptainCrunch Tue 07-Jun-16 16:15:01

...that woudl entirely depend on which team you supported.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:16:45

I weirdly think he was trying to be nice. We were both drunk and I stupidly asked if he thought she was better-looking. He kept avoiding the question and saying we were both attractive and then said "yes but there's no difference really, it's like x and y, basucally the same thing?!" I do know I need to work on my self-esteem. But I don't think he was trying to be a dick.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:17:14

Also she is basucally a supermodel and I'm really, really not!

LittleLionMansMummy Tue 07-Jun-16 16:17:47

It means he's most likely destined for a lonely life with only his right hand for company. Twat.

bombayflambe Tue 07-Jun-16 16:17:56

It's basically saying that you are a 8 and she's a 10.

...I'd be chuffed with either of those (bitter old 2).

OrianaBanana Tue 07-Jun-16 16:18:41

Well, you asked him! What did you want him to say??

GloGirl Tue 07-Jun-16 16:19:18

I've learnt you should never get drunk people to try and make you feel better about yourself flowers

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:20:36

Yes I know, thanks everyone, I walked right into it! blush

UmbongoUnchained Tue 07-Jun-16 16:21:30

If you know she's more attractive than you then why did you ask? Just makes it awkward for everyone.

iklboo Tue 07-Jun-16 16:22:53

I'd have told him he was Sunday pub five a side. Second reserve team.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:23:03

Well i guess because to all intent and purposes he was interested in me and chatting to me all evening. He asked me to come to his house after. I felt he was out of my league though.

araiba Tue 07-Jun-16 16:23:54

premier league
championship
division 1

could be worse- he could have said you were scottish football

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:24:23

She was basucally out of bounds (his best friend's sister) and he was focused on me all evening. But I couldn't shake the thought I was some kind of booby prize (scuse the pun) and he didn't actually like me

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:25:00

Oh so first division is actually pretty shit. Ffs

MardyGrave Tue 07-Jun-16 16:26:39

It sounds like the issue is yours, and your low self esteem needled that answer out of him. Being that needy for validation isn't attractive in anyone.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:28:24

I know. Thankfully he was very drunk and didn't remember anything the next day.

sayamanara Tue 07-Jun-16 16:28:43

I need to get over the issue myself.

whois Tue 07-Jun-16 16:28:52

* I stupidly asked if he thought she was better-looking. He kept avoiding the question and saying we were both attractive and then said "yes but there's no difference really, it's like x and y, basucally the same thing?!" I do know I need to work on my self-esteem. But I don't think he was trying to be a dick.*

Ugh you kept asking him if he thought she was better looking? You were being silly. Why t would you do that? You actually were trying to goad him into telling you were munters compared to your friend???

ricketytickety Tue 07-Jun-16 16:29:35

Out of your league? he sounds like he's in a league of his own!!! Sounds very much like he was running you down a bit so you were more suscpetible to his charms. It's a tactic designed to make you think you need to impress him.

Just because your mate is 'supermodel' like doesn't mean you aren't a beauty too. Some will like tall, some short, some like curvy, some slight. It's different strokes for different folks.

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