This is my first post so bear with me
MIL is a nice enough woman although she lives her life social media, acts like a 20 year old, going out drinking every weekend etc.
She showed no interest during pregnancy, she only took an interest after he was born, took plenty of photos and posted to Facebook and got plenty of 'likes', fine with me. She comes up every other day for the first 2 odd weeks and as soon as her likes start dying down, she stops visiting. She lives 2 hours away on the bus, we don't drive she does, the drive would take 30 minutes. She also works near us and hasn't bothered to pop in.
So now a member of MIL family is back from working abroad for a few weeks, and they want us to take DS to theirs so that family member can meet DS.
DS was born is 5 months old and MIL hasn't bothered to see him in over 2 months, has barely even messaged DP, so now probably wants to take some lovely reunion photos for Facebook. If she can't be arsed to see her GS any other time why should I travel that far just so she can play doting grandmother?
AIBU to make an excuse and say we're really busy over the next few weeks and it might not be possible?
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AIBU to not take DS to see IL's family?
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Mishmashpotatoes · 06/06/2016 09:14
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