My very first partner and I have remained friends since we broke up as teenagers. Because of his job frequently working away/abroad we would sometimes go months without seeing each other.
When we were together he was the nicest, sweetest person and we remained close, helping each other through studying, bereavement etc.
He has been around my daughter since she was 2 years old - as a friend only. He said he wanted more but I wasn't in the same place.
About 12 months ago we were intimate again, he said he wasn't with anyone, could see us being a family. I last saw him in March when he stated over and talked to my now 11 year old daughter about how he would marry me if I said yes.
Today I googled him he missed my birthday for the first time ever, only to find out he's married...
Shocked is an understatement. He's had hundreds of opportunities to tell me but now he's put all sorts of ideas into my daughters head and she thinks he's wondrrful
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Stressedout1980 · 04/06/2016 23:36
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