My life is generally good, I am mostly content and happy.
The one thing is I don't have a family of my own. Maybe one day hopefully. I do spend a lot of time alone. I have friends, who I consider very good friends, we have been there for each other a lot and had good fun in the past. As time moves on, they focus more on their husbands and wives and aren't free very often to socialize. I respect that partners come first.
I generally like my own company but I must admit I'm frequently a bit lonely, when it's been weeks with no social contact apart from a few texts and emails. I think a big part of it is I am an introvert, so I don't have the urge to go out a lot with new people. I only really enjoy spending my limited free time with people I know and love! Which of course is a catch 22 because all new friendships take a long time to develop. I guess I'm just wistfully thinking of old friends.
Anyway, that's me. What about everyone else? I read an article that said that loneliness is something we don't really talk about in our society, and when we do it's always elderly people cited, but that a lot of people are a bit lonely on a regular basis. There seems to be some shame attached to being lonely.
Are you ever lonely?
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Perspectivegetter · 04/06/2016 14:35
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