Ok it's a long one.
DSS lives with me and his dad DH full time. He sees his DM 1 Saturday a month. He is 14. His DM used to see him more often when he was younger but has asked to reduce contact over recent years.
His DM booked a two week holiday for her, her DP, his DD and DSS going on a long haul flight. She didn't check with DSS or DH to see if it suited but rather booked and paid for it up front.
Unfortunately DSS has a planned trip with scouts the same time as the holiday. DSS and his scout unit has been fundraising for the trip for the last year and DSS is really excited about it. DH is going too and has already booked leave. DSS's DM knew about the trip for at least a year as DSS has been going on about it since he got a place to go.
His DM told him he has to go with her on holiday as she has already booked his ticket but DSS does not want to go. DH has told his DM that DSS is ment to go to the scout trip, it's been booked for a year and is also paid for.
DSS hasn't had a single overnight with his DM since he was 9. He isn't very close to her and calls her by her first name (at her insistence). DSS thinks that she only wants him to go as her dp's DD is going.
DSS still sees his DGM and other family members from his DM's side of the family who we have just discovered have been pressuring DSS to go with his DM.
Is DH really being unreasonable not forcing DSS to skip to scout trip and go with his DM instead?
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To not force DSS to go on holiday
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Sherlocked1606 · 03/06/2016 21:10
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