Me and DH put DS (2yr 2m) into a toddler bed a few days ago and we are having problems.
We have put a stair gate across his doorway to stop him wandering around upstairs but it now means we can't close his bedroom door which I think is the cause of all the problems.
Without his door shut the room is a lot lighter, he can hear EVERYTHING and routine noise is waking him up and I also think the loss of his security/safety of being in an enclosed room is upsetting him.
Me and DH are at a bit of a loss to the point where DH even suggested removing the stair gate so we can shut DS's bedroom door but then put a bolt across the top (on the outside) so DS can't open it from the inside and get out. It's a stupid idea and I told him so, I said absolutely no way are we locking DS in his room. I don't think DH had thought it through and was simply looking for a practical solution.
What have other people done to overcome this problem?
I have considered taking off his stair gates and putting stair gates across other doorways, I.e across the bathroom door, the door to the spare room, across the stairs etc so he can't go wandering into them should he leave his room, but I'm pretty sure that if he knows he can leave his own room then he'll be out of it all night as opposed to sleeping.
Does anyone have any ideas or solutions?
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Writerwannabe83 · 02/06/2016 10:02
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