I get up this morning to a message from brothers girlfriend. "We're at a wedding 18th June. DB has been asked to look after your parents dog so would you be able to look after it as we are day and night guests"
Background. We are all (me, DH, DM, DF and DS) going away on 15th June for a weeks holiday together. This was booked in Jan/Feb time but not before my parents had asked could my brother house/dog sit for the week.
Brother's girlfriend has in the past done things we aren't sure were a bit devious. For example, she asked DB could they have a baby and get a flat together. He said he wasn't ready and didnt want to. Lo and behold a few months later she is pregnant and insisting they move in together (Yes, he's just as much responsible for the pregnancy).
I replied with No as we're all away together and DB knows that. I will speak to my parents as it's been planned for months on the basis he could dog sit.
She replied that it was fine he would just not be able to go. I said I didnt understand why this had cropped up now as he knew full well that we were all away together. She said don't worry its fine.
Am really pissed off that either he is reneging on his plans, or she is shit stirring behind his back. I havent told my parents or DH about the messages yet as I feel it'll cause stress but at the same time, my parents ought to know and be having a conversation with my brother that he is really going to do this and not let us all down.
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cjt110 · 01/06/2016 08:37
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