My husband took our dd out to the park on Saturday for a couple of hours so I could catch up with stuff at home. I am a SAHM and he works full time, we rarely see him during the week.
They both love their time together and I have never doubted his capabilities and have trusted him in terms of keeping her safe.
The day after their outing dd was pottering around in the sitting room having her lunch and watching CBeebies, so I nipped out to give DH a cup of coffee, he was messing about with his car approx 100 metres from the house in the garage.
As I handed over the coffee he started a conversation - after a couple of minutes I said that I must just check dd. The back door was open but I wanted to glance through the window to check she was ok.
He said, for goodness sake stop worrying about her, she's fine.....yesterday she was climbing 20 feet climbing frames so she's fine on her own for a few minutes.
For some reason it made me wince and then question his capabilities in terms of her safety. It has bothered me since. I don't want to be a helicopter parent but I don't like that kind of 'oh she'll be fine' attitude.
So, am I just being silly? How long do you feel comfortable leaving your dc out of sight?
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LiquorsOnDeck · 30/05/2016 17:14
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