A few years ago I bought dd a goal for her birthday (which she had asked for). It's true that I did this without consulting dh but on the other hand he does this sort of thing as well like the massive ping pong table in the conservatory which he did not ask me about. For 2 or 3 years it was up in the garden and dd played with it mainly when friends were over though not only. Dh did not like it because he said it took up too much of the garden (debatable) and because the grass around it was getting ruined (true). He kept on threatening to take it down and eventually did. Dd put it back up but he took it down again and it has been stashed away in a corner of the garden for about 6 months or more now.
Today dh - already grumpy because he was out in the garden on his own doing stuff, aggressively asked me to find someone to give it away to and said that he would throw it away otherwise as it was taking up too much room where it was stashed away. I said to ask dd as it had been my present to her.
Dd2 then went out and told him we were going to put the goal back up. So when I went back out there he told me that if this happens he is going to "smash it to pieces" . Is this a normal thing to say?
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nomoreintimacyever · 29/05/2016 15:24
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