I am currently at uni and my course requires preparation for practice which basically means that i have to attend outside of timetabled lectures, training and complete voluntary hours.
This week has been extremley busy, I had three days of training as well as volunteering on Saturday evening for two hours, on call Sunday but not called out and Monday evening for an hour and a half. I was also helping my friend respond to a serious allegation that means she could be thrown off the course. The help I have given is rewording her responses in a more 'corporate' style.
The final document had to be in on Friday and as i was training all day Thurs/Friday I asked her to email it to me so that I could work on it Thursday evening. I started on this while dinner was cooking and got back to it straight after. Meanwhile I asked husband to keep DD 9y occupied. By 9pm he had finished two bottles of wine (yes he had work today!) at which point DD was playing up. He stormed into the kitchen and had a real go at me for putting everyone else before my family. He would not calm down and DD was getting increasingly upset so I went to bed with her (we have seperate bedrooms).I felt very vunerable as he is 6ft 4 and I am only slight in build and he was being aggressive. Then when i did get to bed my DD was still crying and told me that DH smacked her for being naughty.
I didnt sleep well and as a result had to cancel todays training and DH is still insisting that I should not have provided the help despite the fact he knows that if I say i will do something I always do it. I can't help but feel this outburst was connected to his drinking. He regularly drinks 3 bottles of wine on a Friday/Saturday then 2 on Sunday and usually one on a Thursday. I now think that his drinking is causing the family problems and texted to tell him to not come home and stay with his brother. I don't think I was BU given the circumstances but does he have a point that I am neglecting him and DD?
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To ask 'DH' to go and stay at his brothers?
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suchafuss · 27/05/2016 21:17
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