Would this bother you? My DH and I have been married for three years he is always very complimentary about my figure etc. He is a gym buff and goes every day and eats very healthily. I go to the gym but nowhere near as much as him and I eat everything in moderation (except chocolate which I eat in abundance ) As a result he is muscly and lean and does some fitness modelling and I am small but average with cellulite etc. He is always lovely about my figure HOWEVER...
He is very critical of any perceived imperfection on other people be it my friends, his friends, male female whatever. We went on holiday recently with my cousin who is a 10-12 and he saw her in a bikini and said he was shocked as she's huge. I always tell him off and tell him it makes me feel insecure as if he thinks it about them what does he think about me? He then says I'm perfect (not true at all!) and thinks that will reassure me. He can't see his judgmental attitude to others is affecting my confidence. Ive tried telling him he won't listen.
Should I just ignore?
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DH commenting negatively about body type
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PersonalSpace · 25/05/2016 10:56
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