My dh works Mon-Fri and his shifts can be 8am to 4pm, 9am to 5pm or 10am to 6pm. It varies.
I work 5pm to 9pm and 10am to 2pm (weekends) so I can do childcare for my daughter. I have a 2yo grandaughter.
Dh loves the "earlies". He swaps shifts with colleagues at every opportunity so does mostly 8am to 4pm shifts. He is up at 6.30am putting on the TV, singing in the shower, chatting and making us a cup of tea, and generally making sure I am awake too. I could gladly throttle him as I am still sleep deprived from being knackered from my shift the night before. Dd and granddaughter arrive just before 8am. I have granddaughter til 4.30pm. My day has no breaks or time for rest before I rush off to work myself.
AIBU to think he is being selfish by doing as many early shifts as he can and waking me up. When he does the 10am to 6pm at least I get a lie in til 8am.
I do love him to bits, and he does work hard, but I find myself gritting my teeth at 6.30am. I am just looking for sympathy really as am so knackered atm.
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Yukduck · 24/05/2016 22:54
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